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What people look for when someone has just died, and what they still look for months later. Written without jargon, checked at the source.

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42 articles, sorted by the big questions.

Caring for a grave

Adding a name to a headstone: the inscription, permission, and timing

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Someone else now rests in the family grave: who adds the inscription, who has to approve it, when it can be done, and what to do when the stone is full.

In this article

  1. 1Who adds the inscription?
  2. 2Do you need permission?
  3. 3Do you have to add the name?
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Depending on the moment

You don't look for the same things in the first week and six months later.

  1. 1

    The first days

    Telling people, organising

  2. 2

    For the service

    Speaking, choosing, dressing

  3. 3

    The months after

    Remembering, carrying on

All articles

Plain water and a soft brush, once or twice a year: the steps that carry no risk, the three things that damage stone, and who is responsible for the grave.

One payment or a yearly one, what is actually included, and the questions to ask before you pay.

What a QR code on a headstone or an urn actually does, what it costs, and where it falls short.

A card, a eulogy, a candle, a message on the anniversary: the ways to pay tribute to someone who died, and how to start when the words will not come.